"Whatever happens around you don't take it personally. Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves." - don Miguel Ruiz
I find that the longer I live and learn in this life, the more I realize that people's reactions towards you or anything is just their own perception and an outward reflection of themselves. We shouldn't take people's negative reactions towards us personally. It isn't about us. The sooner we realize this the more at peace we will be with our interactions with others.